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Respecting Yom Kippur, Eidl-Adha, Christmas and Easter

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Events this week led me to several questions about Christmas, Easter, Yom Kippur and Eid al-Adha. Many readers are familiar with the first two, but some may not know much about the last two holy days.

Yom Kippur, celebrated this year on Oct. 4, is the holiest day in the year for Jews. Apparently, Jewish people (and I’m one) have not done a good enough job of explaining this. At least, that’s one possible explanation for events I’ve learned about.

In writing this column, I talked with Sheik Abdirahman Omar Ahmad, iman of the Abubakar Islamic Center of Minnesota, who explained that Oct. 4 also is one of the two major Islamic holy days: Eid al-Adha. It’s sometimes known as “Eid.”

But this year, a variety of events have been planned for Oct. 4, despite its religious importance for two major religions.

So here are my questions:

  • Would someone schedule a weekend of races and activities, intended to attract families, on Christmas or Easter?
  • Would the Urban Debate League schedule a debate tournament on Christmas or Easter?
  • Would community groups schedule a discussion about how to improve public schools, titled “Everybody’s In,” on Christmas or Easter?

Perhaps I’m naive. I think the answer to each question is “no.” Unfortunately, these events are happening on Yom Kippur and Eid.

For many Jews, Yom Kippur is the single most important day of the year. It’s one of two major holy days Jews celebrate in the fall, (the other being Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year).

The Jewish Virtual Library (online athttp://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/holiday4.html) explains: “Yom Kippur is probably the most important holiday of the Jewish year. Many Jews who do not observe any other Jewish custom will refrain from work, fast and/or attend synagogue services on this day.”

The Hebrew words “Yom Kippur” translates to “day of atonement.” Many Jews spent all or much of the day praying and reflecting. Jews review the year that’s just passed and ask God to forgive the mistakes we made in the last year. We pray for help in making the coming year a better one.

Sheik Ahmad explained that this is the Eid Al-Adha is the “Feast of the Sacrifice,” honoring Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his son if God demanded it. He also noted that Eid is tied to the lunar calendar, so it is not the same day in the Western (solar) calendar each year. The same is true for Yom Kippur.

Ironically a 5K and 10K race will make it more difficult for people to get to one of the state’s largest Jewish synagogues, pictured above. Summit Avenue, where Mount Zion Temple is located, will be blocked off for several hours in the morning to protect runners in 5K and 10K races that are part of the larger Twin Cities Marathon (run on Oct 5). I don’t think those two shorter races would be planned for either of Christianity’s holiest days.

An urban debate tournament also will be held on Oct 4. I talked via email with David Song, program manager for the Urban Debate League. He was very apologetic, writing in part, “My sincerest apologies. We’ll be more thoughtful in our scheduling/contacts going forward.”

Finally, there’s a discussion, called “Everybody’s In,” designed to bring families, students, educators and community members together to consider how we can help more young people succeed.

A few weeks ago I talked with one of the meeting’s organizers, an outstanding educator I’ve admired for years, Mary K. Boyd. She explained that the planners picked Oct. 4 because a great speaker would be in town earlier in the week and would be available at no cost on Saturday. She also apologized and offered to recommend that the meeting be canceled.

I also talked with several of the events co-sponsors, which included the United Way, Minnesota Department of Education, St. Paul Public Schools and St Paul Federation of Teachers. Several agreed that hold the event on Oct 4 was not ideal, and shared their desire to be respectful and responsive to others.

After some earnest, frank conversation, we agreed that the meeting would be held as planned and another meeting would be held soon for folks who wanted to attend but could not because of Yom Kippur. Planners also will try to avoid major holidays of any group in future programs, she said.

That seems like a worthy goal. Minnesota is becoming more diverse.

Some one told me years ago that America is not just a “melting pot”; it’s also something like a salad with lots of different ingredients. Like the salad, we can gain from diversity.

That means, in part, learning about major holy days and holidays. It also means, in the future, planning events that avoid those days.

Joe Nathan, formerly a Minnesota public school teacher, administrator and PTA president, directs the Center for School Change. Reactions are welcome at joe [at] centerforschoolchange [dot] org

  • I am frankly nowhere near surprised at any of this. Remember, Minneapolis, only about 70 years ago, was the most anti-Semitic city in the US. When I came here from the East Coast in the late 70s, I was asked in all honesty, if my hair was curly "to hide (my) horns". In the early 80s, I was unable to complete the "diversity" course required for teacher licensure at the University of MInnesota in good standing, because the only instructor only taught it in the Fall, and scheduled the midterm on Yom Kippur -permitting no makeup exams....upon my filing a complaint with University and College of Education Administration, they refused to do anything. Apparently, this was because of the instructor's skin color. Minneapolis high school varsity football continues to be played on Friday evenings, though, to be fair, sometimes they are played in the afternoon. For those interested in the arts - the Minneapolis Underground Film Festival, ACTC's Fall Art Tour, Twin Cities Fashion Expo, among others are scheduled for October 4th. And the usual excuse is "We are scheduling it on Saturday because more people can come, and anyway we would not schedule on Christmas or Easter, because people spend those days with their families." The JCRC has put out a Jewish Holidays calendar for decades - either it is not publicized, or nobody outside the Jewish community cares. Because every time I tell yet another organization about it, they swear they will get a copy - and then schedule on a major Jewish holiday the next year. Guess we are just going to have to suck it up and continue living with minority status. - by Jane Strauss Âû on Sat, 10/04/2014 - 10:13am
  • Thank you, thank you, thank you! There is still much work to do toward respecting cultural diversity! Acknowledging important holidays is a big step in the right direction. It is so insulting to have these holidays ignored. - by Judith Yourman on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 12:22pm
  • Joe - Your article hits an important "nail" on the head. It is also very timely, given the news of the world that is swirling around us and the demographic shifts that we are seeing right here in Minnesota. It seems, to me, that, here in this country, we have a very long way to go - to achieve "acceptance", "mutual respect" and a higher degree of inclusiveness in our society. Personally, since I am not a Christian, it would not bother me much if those events you mentioned were scheduled on Christian holidays; but, it is the fact that there is not even the slightest reference or deference made to other than Christian holidays, when public events are being planned. Combined with the events that have been occurring in Ferguson, Missouri - reminding us that African Americans and other people of color are still segregated into "plantations" in our communities - your alert should contribute to a call for action - to find ways to increase awareness, build greater acceptance of differences (religious, ethnicity, skin-color, etc.). In a way, we are fortunate that Minnesota is no longer perceived as "fly-over" country. People from many corners of the world have found a home here. Even if we choose not to go out into the world, the world is coming to us. I see hopeful signs; but we have a very long way to go; and Joe, your article is perfectly timed! All the best, Rob - by Robert Hunter Scarlett on Sun, 10/05/2014 - 7:22am
  • Joe - Your article hits an important "nail" on the head. It is also very timely, given the news of the world that is swirling around us and the demographic shifts that we are seeing right here in Minnesota. It seems, to me, that, here in this country, we have a very long way to go - to achieve "acceptance", "mutual respect" and a higher degree of inclusiveness in our society. Personally, since I am not a Christian, it would not bother me much if those events you mentioned were scheduled on Christian holidays; but, it is the fact that there is not even the slightest reference or deference made to other than Christian holidays, when public events are being planned. Combined with the events that have been occurring in Ferguson, Missouri - reminding us that African Americans and other people of color are still segregated into "plantations" in our communities - your alert should contribute to a call for action - to find ways to increase awareness, build greater acceptance of differences (religious, ethnicity, skin-color, etc.). In a way, we are fortunate that Minnesota is no longer perceived as "fly-over" country. People from many corners of the world have found a home here. Even if we choose not to go out into the world, the world is coming to us. I see hopeful signs; but we have a very long way to go; and Joe, your article is perfectly timed! All the best, Rob - by Robert Hunter Scarlett on Sun, 10/05/2014 - 7:22am

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